As happens every year, Christmas helps signify the closing of one year and the opening of the next chapter of our lives, and while that's as poetic as I'm going to get today, I'm planning on making it a good one.
Write your story. Finish that class. Record that song. Go on that trip. Make good with that friend. Forge new ties. Work harder. Go further. Be more.
We've all got it in us, it's just a matter of finding it and hanging onto it. Keep that in mind, yeah?
And, on that note, a short Merry Christmas from Jandy and Dechlan.
who wears the ugly Christmas sweaters
Well, after they went wandering through a department store at the beginning of the holiday season and passed the quite horrifically large displays of Christmas sweaters—for both men and women—featuring large Rudolph heads or prolific scatterings of snowmen, Dechlan had to go and mention how much he doesn’t like those articles of clothing, mostly because he had a great aunt who visited every Christmas, wore the garish sweaters, and had the gall to pinch his cheeks while she was at it.
He comes home from work two days later and Jandy is prancing around in a wash of bright blue that has a rather overpowering nutcracker stitched across the front, and has the most mischievous gleam in her eyes.
who picks out the holiday movies and who makes the hot cocoa
With the very tight budget that Jandy and Jane grew up with, extravagances like bringing movies home, at any time of year, was basically unheard of. They did hot cocoa, but it was the instant type that tastes like cardboard half the time.
So Dechlan will pick up old classics for them to watch together and Jandy will experiment with fancy (that is, not instant) hot cocoa, following a recipe to the T to create the perfect brew, and even though Dech isn’t a huge fan of overly sweet beverages, he concedes to a mugful in front of their movie of the night.
who starts the snowball fight
It goes back and forth, actually. But it is Dechlan who tends to initiate more often, just because he is able to keep his intentions to himself for a smidge longer than Jandy, which means he is able to have the element of surprise.
Jandy’s mind is always wide open and the moment she even considers stuffing a handful of snow down the back of Dechlan’s coat, he knows about it. So after the first several spoiled attempts at an ambush, she let the idea go and moved onto other antics.
who drags the other under the mistletoe
Oh so Jandelyn. Dechlan likes his privacy—and, by extension, their privacy—and so usually keeps the PDA at a minimum when in public, but that doesn’t mean that Jandy always agrees with this sentiment.
Meaning, when they get invited to a Christmas party for the habitants of their apartment building and she spots that green sprig above a doorway, and with her veins are buzzing (because you can’t have a decent Christmas party without spiked eggnog), no amount of withering looks from Dech are going to stop her.
Of course, he doesn’t really put up much of a fuss when she grabs him by the collar and pulls him across the room to stand under the mistletoe. He never has been able to keep up his resolve when she gets that spark in her eye and that honest, open smile.
(They don’t realize almost the entirety of the party guests are watching until after, because they all burst out in applause and good-natured laughter. It’s a well-kept secret from them, but Jandy and Dechlan are something of their building’s OTP, and it’s hard to catch them in the middle of such displays.)
who decorates the house
They both do that, but Dechlan is the one to drag the boxes out of the closet on December 1st and by the time Jandy rolls out of bed, there are decorations strewn across the living room. He does inventory every year, to check their lights and decide if they need any replacements.
And Jandy is the one to decide where everything is going that year, because she likes to change it up annually just for it to be fresh and new. Dech doesn’t mind, because it makes her happy, which makes him happy, and it always looks nice in the end.
who hangs up the ornaments on the tree
Dechlan performs this duty, because by the time they get to the tree at the end of the day, Jandy has worn herself out and is usually cocooned on the couch in a blanket with a mug of coffee. She’s content to let him arrange and just sit and watch.
He’s good at it, anyways, that somewhat-analytical mind working to keep any one area from being too heavily populated with the ornaments.
who cooks christmas dinner
Neither of them are master chefs—far from it, actually, but Jandy has at least a bit more practice with cooking something that’s palatable, so she’s the first to pioneer the effort and Dechlan will pitch in and help where he can.
When he’s not “checking for poison”, that is.
And there's your weekly dose of cavity-worthy adorableness from Jandy and Dech.
One of these days my sadistic side is going to kick back in and then there's going to be drama and trauma and angst. Just sayin'.
Thanks for another year of hanging in there with me, guys! It really means a lot to me to know that my "shout into the void", as it were, is being heard by someone.
Again, Merry Christmas!
Ad astra per aspera.
To the stars, through difficulties.